Anonymous asked:
hey, firstly i love your tumblr omg the pics and the skin is fabulous. anyway, i just hope y'all will give me some tips/advises on my issue. anyway, i like this girl and i got to know her through my other friend. i really like her a lot but i'm not sure if she feels the same way... occasionally she would make me feel as if she does but i really have no idea. what should i do? i'm afraid if i tell her things would get awkward and i can't afford to lose her as my friend. help please? thank you! :)

Well, in my opinion I really really think you should tell her, chances are, she’ll probably feel the same way if you think she does. I think this will take a weight of your back, and get you the girl! Also, don’t be scared to loose her as a friend, if things don’t work out, make your best effort to keep things from being awkward and im sure you’ll make it.

Go for it!!

XOXO

 And i am sure that even if she doesn’t feel the same easy, it will flatter her that you do and then things can go back to normal. relax. you lose 100% of the chances you don’t take, right?






Anonymous asked:
how many followers do you have? im guessing you have like one thousand ka-billion because your photos are hellaawesome!

hahahah we don’t but thanks! :)

XOXO






Anonymous asked:
Hey :) i have a boy problem (doesnt everybody? haha) you see, i like this boy who i probably shouldnt... I shouldnt coz he cheated on his gf wit me... Now theyre not together anymore and i want to be with him (obviously waiting a long enough time, or it would be too soon so it would be wrong), but im scared of what everyones reaction might be (kinda likee if they suddenly think im a total biatch and hate me). What should i dooo??? Aghh

Well, I personally think you should give it some time, and wait for things to cool down. That being said, I also believe if you think you are ready to be with him, and he is ready to be with you, and the only thing holding you back from it is what people will say, then do it! You shouldn’t let what people think of you define your actions. Don’t let fear hold you back! Anything could happen, but it could be good, so focus on that, don’t let what people might say of you rule how you live.

Besides, I know I’m being blunt but between kissing someone else’s boyfriend and getting together with someone, the first one is the more “bitchy” act and that already happened so I say go with it :) he obviously likes you a lot if he chose you over his girlfriend and seriously.. Screw what people think



Anonymous asked:
Girls can you give me advice. So my friend is getting really skinny and it scared me, she excerises alot and she only eats fruit. Also since she thinks she is "hot" now that she is skinny she is turning really sluty. How can I help her without hurting her feelings? How do I tell her she's becoming anorexic and a slut? We live in New Jersey so they boys here think its sexy to be skeleton thin, help pleasee?

Well, maybe you could try talking to her without hurting her feelings, tell her how you are worried about her eating really little, and being really focused on how she looks. Honestly, if I were you, I would try to fix the problem with not eating first, since this isnt healthy for her, you can talk to her on how shes acting later. Also, maybe if you think you could talk to an adult about this, maybe your mother, or even hers, I think this could work. I hope this works, good luck!

XOXO




Anonymous asked:
Im a boy. Im in love with my best friend, and Im sure she doesn't like me back, but I just really want her to know. What do I do?

Well, if you think you can directly tell her the truth, and be totally honest about your feelings, then I think this would be the best thing you could do. You can tell her how you feel about her, and that you just want her to know, and this doesn’t necessarily mean you want to be her boyfriend or anything like this. And I’m sure there is a chance that she also likes you! After all, you are her best friend so you must be pretty special, maybe she likes you too. If not, don’t worry, i’m sure your friendship is very strong and won’t get ruined over this. So go ahead! Tell her how you feel! I hope this helps:)

XOXO

plus, you already think she doesn’t like you so the worst that can happen is that you were right






Anonymous asked:
How can you get over someone you love?

Well, first, I imagine you know that it is not a very easy thing to do, and the best is to just give it some time. But, there are some things you could do to help it. Try to stop talking to him/her for a while, take a step back and give yourself some space. Distance yourself from them, that will make it a little easier, and you won’t think about them as much. Try avoiding this person as much as you can, not in a rude way, but even a casual hello now and then, can make things harder. Try not to check his/her Facebook, don’t ask people how their doing, and as I said before, just give it some time, I’m sure you’ll forget about them soon ;). Good Luck!

XOXO,

Pali